When someone makes something tangible for us, they give us the opportunity to realize possibilities within ourselves that we might not of believed before.
It is possible to care about people so much, about life, so much, about love, so much and to sculpt the very way you live your days around these values.
I know this to be true from the first time I heard MLK speak, from the next time I saw him march and for every time after that, when his life became a portal into mine. Or, my life became a portal into him. I have never been so moved by one human being before and every MLK day I sit deeply within myself and imagine what it'd be like to know him, to spend a day with him, to watch his expressions and hear his laughter.
My sister gifted me a book by Thich Nhat Hanh speaking of his personal experiences and essential teachings. This book arrived in the mail last night. I started the book today with a passage he wrote about Martin Luther King Jr:
"I first wrote to Dr. King on June 1, 1965, explaining to him why some of us in Vietnam had immolated ourselves in protest against the war. I explained that it was not an act of suicide, or of despair; it was an act of love.
There are times when we have no other way than to burn ourselves in order to be heard, in order to get the message across. The people of Vietnam did not want the war, but there was no way for this voice to be heard. The warring parties controlled all the radio, television, and newspapers. To burn ourselves like that was not an act of violence. It was an act of compassion, an act of peace. The suffering of the monk who burns himself to convey a message of love and compassion- is of the same nature as the act of Jesus Christ dying on the cross, dying with no hate, no anger, only with compassion, leaving behind a compassionate call for peace, for brotherhood.
A year later, on June 1, 1966, I met the Reverend Martin Luther King Jr. in person for the first time in Chicago. From the first moment, I knew I was in the presence of a holy person. Not just his good work but his very being was a source of great inspiration for me. When those who represent a spiritual tradition embody the essence of their tradition, just the way they walk, sit, and smile speaks volumes about the tradition. Martin Luther King Jr. was young at that time, as was I. We both belonged to the Fellowship of Reconciliation, an organization working to help groups in conflict find peaceful resolution.
We had tea together in his room, and then we went down for a press conference. In the press conference, Dr. King spoke out for the first time against the Vietnam War. That was the day we combined our efforts to work for peace in Vietnam and to fight for civil rights in the US. We agreed that the true enemy of man is not man. Our enemy is not outside of us. Our true enemy is anger, hatred, and discrimination that is found in the hearts and minds of man. We have to identify the real enemy and seek nonviolent ways to remove it. I told the press that his activities for civil rights and human rights were perfectly in accord with our efforts in Vietnam to stop the war.
In May 1967, one year later, I met Martin Luther Ling Jr. again in Geneva at a conference called Pacem in Terris- "Peace on Earth"- organized by the World Council of Churches. Dr. King was staying on the eleventh floor; I was on the fourth floor. He invited me up for breakfast. On my way, I was detained by the press, so I arrived late. He had kept the breakfast warm for me and had waited for me. I greeted him, "Dr. King, Dr. King!"
"Dr. Hanh, Dr. Hanh!" he replied.
We were able to continue our discussion on peace, freedom, and community and what kind of steps America could take to end the war. And we agreed that without a community, we cannot go very far. Without a happy, harmonious community, we will not be able to realize our dream.
I said to him, "Martin, do you know something? In Vietnam they call you a bodhisattva, an enlightened being trying to awaken other living beings and help them move toward more compassion and understanding." I'm glad I had the chance to tell him that, because just a few months later he was assassinated Memphis.
I was in New York when I heard the news of assassination; I was devastated. I could not eat; I could not sleep. I made a deep vow to continue building what he called "the beloved community," not only for myself but for him also. I have done what I promised to Martin Luther King Jr. And I think that I have always felt his support."
Last year I complied some of my favorite MLK quotes, here.
And to close... Coretta Scott King said,
"Women, if the soul of the nation is to be saved, I believe that you must become its soul."